Saturday, December 26, 2009
Pandora !! Eywa !! I SEE YOU !!
Saturday, December 19, 2009
Contrast !!!
Monday, December 7, 2009
SPEAK YOUR MIND !!! Guest Post 2
Hi everyone!
It is my turn to disappoint everyone who came here to read a perfectly written article with lots of emotions and elegant words by charming Ms. AJ. 'Post Purchase Dissonance!' That’s not happening this time. You are here to read the words of a very confused and a sluggish big boy. That’s right you are reading an article which was due last week.
I should probably begin by thanking AJ for this opportunity but I am going to save that for the last. Let’s speak about something important. Shall we! Something very critical. Something that defines us. (Yes I know that you have heard about speaking your mindfor a loooong time and from looots of people.) But interestingly enough most of us are not doing a good job at it. Come on let’s be honest about it.
Ok! Let me start. I am really bad at it. More so I did not realize I was not doing it for a long time. I always believed speaking your mind was rude. And that I should never offend anyone, especially friends (Yeah I know am a nice guy :-) ). What I failed see was there is something which I was giving up all the time! My Right! Right to speak! Right to my have my opinion and more so Right to define myself.
Let’s see it in very simply way, things that happen with our friends. How many times did we have to go to a lousy movie just because our so called gang of friends wanted to see ? How many times did we have to do a shitty favor of buying a gift for a friend’s girl friend just because he doesn’t have good taste(well …when it comes to buying for women, who does?) or how may precious minutes in our life have we lost doing something we never wanted to do ? How many opportunities have we missed because at the right time we were not able to say what we wanted to? I could just go on.
I remember when I was in my 1st year of engineering a very young lecturer put this in a nice way or should I say very understandable words for my age at that time “If you like a girl don’t just stare at her and do favors for her. Tell her how you feel because sooner or later some Shahruk khan will appear out of nowhere and take her away” Sounds lame uh? Maybe! But this statement made a me realize a lot of things at that time. (BTW I did tell her and yet Shahruk khan appeared. That’s a different story)
Never ever worry about hurting your friend by speaking your mind. If you don’t hurt them that once! You’ll end up getting hurt a lot more times. Finding it very difficult to say NO? Go through this article: www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/
Having a different opinion and yet doing quite the opposite, just because you could not speak for some reason, is really like insulting yourself. When you voice your opinion and choices you define yourself, you are letting everybody know what you are, what you want and how you think. When you define yourself, the society aligns itself to accommodate you. I agree there might be some lose in this process but it could not be bigger than losing your identity.
Not just with friends, with your family and especially at your work place. It is always better to let your preferences and choices be known. Voice your concerns! You might not just be doing yourself a favor but also helping out others who are not confident enough to do it on their own. Do not commit to anything you are not comfortable with.
If you observe it closely it all comes down to believing in yourself. You can not define what you are if do not believe you are worth that or if you think what you are defining is not worth enough. We know life is short, let’s not waste it on making everyone happy by suppressing our own interests. You might not get time in life to live like you want and do what you want, if you don’t speak your mind.
And why am I talking about this on AJ’s page??? Let me tell you! I have known AJ for almost 3 years now, sharing a classroom for 2 of it. I have never seen her doing something she did not want to do. I know what all she’s been through and never once have I ever seen her not standing up for what she believed in. That is something I have always admired about her and something which she inspires me with.
@ AJ: Congrats on your 1 year of writing. Keep going! And thank you so much for the opportunity.
Cheers
K.S.Raakeshmohan
Monday, November 30, 2009
A Post by Chrony !!! (Guest Post 1)
We often try to predict the future based on the past but neither one exist. Both are illusions. There is no past. There is no future... The only thing that exist is the present state.
Furthermore none of us do not even know what we really want in life. Our real desire is to meet life as it is, even though we don't understand what that means. Through this invisible cord of dreams we are all connected to another world - a place beyond description, space, time, cause and effect.
This same cord vibrates in different frequency leveles when our emotions are manifested through the times of sadness and happiness, loneliness and togetherness.
These emotions might even bring out different emotions in us but our subconscious mind dosent really know what makes us happy or sad, it just expresses itself based on the emotion that we run through the chambers of our brain and the response action because of this expression is entirely based on OUR decision on how we choose to respond to the world.
Are we going through a dark phase in life and are we expecting a light beam in our downtrodden present state of mind? Does it look like the end?
Believe me! rather; believe in yourself!! It is just the beginning.
-Chronicwriter
Hey Aish! I totally enjoyed doing this guest post. Tried one of my favorite genres for your special day.Psychology is indeed a welcome break for me from my usual humor stream. It was a pleasure to scribble this so called psycho-script. Hope your readers do not run away from this page after reading this guest article from me. Blogging has given me many good souls with whom i have a platonic relationship and you are one such soul.Have many more blogging years and all the very best for your future. God bless you
Prason Christopher Robin
Happy Birthday to ME !!!!
Heyi,
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Lessons From Life - 1
Friday, November 6, 2009
A Day to Remember !!
Monday, October 19, 2009
2 States...
- Their love for each other might keep them going and they might sacrifice things for each other and adjust too.. brings a lot of mutual understanding and harmony.
- They might each expect the other person to adjust, sacrifice and say u do it if u love me and finally you know where it leads you too.
Sunday, October 18, 2009
Music - An Elixir !
Friday, October 16, 2009
Diwali Diyas !!!
Heyi,
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Return of the Busy Bee !!!
Friday, September 25, 2009
Golu Golu Sundal !!!
Saturday, September 12, 2009
The Brand Tag !!!
My Mobile - My all time favorite Nokia Xpress Music
My Music Player - IPod Shuffle
My Watch - Fast Track !!!
My Slipons - Metro, Marie Claire.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
A Long Pending Tag !!!
- Grab the book nearest to you, turn on page 18 and find line 4 - " 'Thats not really Latin', he persisted(Pink Elephant)" This is from the book Drop the Pink Elephanth which i haven finished for a long time now.. Its 15 ways to say what you mean and mean what you say by BILL McFarlan.. Good One..
- Stretch your left arm out as far as you can & catch air? - My green couch on my bed !!!
- What is the last thing you watched on TV? - A part of Thangam serial on Sun TV
- Without looking, guess what time it is? - 9:30
- Now look at the clock, what is the actual time? - 9:30 (I heard the news on IBN outside !!)
- With the exception of the computer, what can you hear? - I told you !! the IBN Newsreader
- When did you last step outside? What were you doing? - Actually I stepped in from work jus 2 hours ago !!! Stepping out would be tiring !!
- Before you started this Q&As, what did you look at? - Driving test on FB
- What are you wearing? - Obviously Night Clothes !! Its sleeping time !!
- When did you last laugh? - I seriously don remember !!
- What is on the walls of the room you are in? - A perumal Pic, all of us cousins together pic, a wall clock and my gurujis pic !!
- Seen anything weird lately? - Ya !! My right Knee is making noises !!
- What do you think of this quiz? - Actually makes me feel better
- What is the last film you saw? - "Kaminey"(Dhan Than naa)
- If you became a multimillionaire overnight, what would you buy? - Unanswerable !!!
- Tell me something about you that I dunno! - I am not able to actually think of any !!
- If you could change one thing about the world, regardless of guilt or politics, what would you do? - Bring Schools or training centers in every few kms space
- Do you like to Dance? - OH MY GOD! Thats one thing i love.. Bharathnatyam stands first.. But i do like any kinda ballroom dancing which i d learn soon !
- Imagine your first child is a girl, what do you call her? - Ananya, Athreya, Pragya
- Imagine your first child is a boy, what do you call him? - Prayag
- Would you ever consider living abroad? - I WILL !!!
- What do you want GOD to say to you when you reach the pearly gates? - Oh ! Sweetheart I was jus waiting for ur smile to brighten these skies !!!!
Sunday, September 6, 2009
Shri Gurubyo Namaha !!!
Friday, August 28, 2009
My 50 - A Collage
- Amma.. Amma is my role model, a vibrant lady, lot of courage, boldness, full of life and energy, a strong person behind every important step i take in life.
- Appa.. A serene, calm and very respectable personality, is seen with regard wherever he goes, a great person for advice and suggestions, a practical and reliable man.
- Athai, Paati and few others in the family.. Pampers, but the genuine concern no one will ever have.. affection and love personified
- Prashanth.. Everyone who knows me know him too !!!
- Srini Sir.. A totally different personality i admire, a great thinker, an awesome motivator, a great friend, good mentor.. someone who is like appa..
- Sriram.. A very affectionate friend.. best person ta ask suggestions too. Took lot of efforts to convince me mentally to take MBA as a way of life rather than jus a course.. It helped !!
- Adithya.. My bro.. My friend and my enemy, protective, loving and a good critic..
- Guruji.. Sri Sri Ravishankarji.. Though i ve seen him from just a distance.. The aura he spreads and happiness and change he does to ones life is tremendous
- Sheela Miss.. My teacher at middle school for 3 years, a firm believer, a good teacher, and a great encouragement..
- Kumar Jiju(Geetha, don be offended.. it includes u too).. He is someone i see may be once in 6 months but share so much rapport.. a great a shoulder to lean on, has an answer for everythin, very practical, cool and casual..
- 2 cute teddy bears which my best friend
- A fast track watch - My dads gift on my 19th birthday
- My pink Ipod shuffle from my friend
- My mobile Phone - mom and cousin
- My surprise birthday
- Mobile: Work and personal requires me ta have a phone all time. I feel as though my palms don exist without a Mobile phone in hand
- My Laptop: My cute red Sony Vaio is one of my treasured possessions. It has my work related stuff, movies and everything I need. I am dysfunctional without it.
- Music: My phone is an xpress music, a music player and everything i own would have music facility in it.
- My shalanga: Shalanga is the bells i wear on my ankle for dance. Its a possession i love and respect.
- My Contact Lenses: It shows me the colorful world as clearly as it is...
- Love: Something i think the world cant live without
- Romance: U know what it means !!!
- Family: Without which i think i am not what i am today
- God: the Almighty !!
- Sweets: I love ta eat them too !. I personally feel that its such a cute word to use!
- Swiss
- Rome
- Italy
- Australia
- Phuket
- Cream Center(They ve got Lovely Malai Kulfi)
- Rain Forest (Good North Indian stuff)
- Grains Of Paradise(does not exist now) Their Koftas are unbelievable
- Little Italy (Paasssttaaaaaaaaaa !!!!!!!!!)
- Saravana Bhavan(A regular sambar dosa dine out.. SO Tasty!!)
- The Cinderella Story: This is one of the first romantic comedy movies i saw. I fell in love with every character of the movie, the plot, story line and Music. the music still remains in the top of my I tunes list. Enchanted, Ella Enchanted, Princess Diaries come under the category. 27 Dresses, 50 first dates, A walk to remember, Prince and Me, Just like Heaven kind of romantic comedies too
- Mani Ratnam Movies: I think any of Mani's movies are amazing Right from Mouna Ragam
to his last Guru, i admire all his movies. Alaipayuthey is really close to my heart - Kakka Kakka: A great movie with lot of emotional touch
- Telugu Movies like Bomarellu, Nuvasthavante Nenodhanthaana, etc
- Korean Movie like My Little Bride, Seducing Mr. Perfect, Innocent Steps...
- A lovely house in a coastal area with a big portico and a sunset view
- A world trip
- Contribute to or try to Provide education to people who cant afford
- Have a top position in a company
- Currency in my pocket always. Never say no to anyone.
I know this blog sounded more like a tag.. But its my 50th and special to me !! May be when i read it again i ll know if my opinions change or remain. It took me 3 days to compile this.. So, that's for it now... I ve just had a few expert opinions as for a few topics for my next few posts.. So i will come out with more..
Cheers
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