Thursday, December 19, 2013

Feeling - A Woman!!

Disclaimer: Cause I have written this post does not necessarily mean it is my story. It is like yet another Mani Ratnam, Gautam Vasudev Menon or Selva Raghavan movie, where parts of this blog post might be inspirations from my life. This post might also be a huge baggage of my habit of watching too many English Romantic Comedies!
When does a woman become a woman! I ve always wondered this. Pardon my upbringing in a not very traditional woman way. I have always had the freedom to choose what I would be. Unlike a lot of other girl-friends of mine, I have never been asked to bow in front of a man or even control my loud voice! I was what I was. So, it would be quite weird when I heard words like ‘Behave like a woman’ after more than 2 decades of my particular behaviour pattern. 
Moving on to think when a woman truly feels a woman. Is it when she is married off, being forced to feel shy and bend your head (which might possibly be the last time your head was held high)? or when she gives birth to her child? Or when she is seen wrongly by men in public? Or when she has the advantage of taking a Ladies queue in most places (because it is obviously shorter)?
Your woman might be too bold, too strong or even may be a feminist but that doesn stop her from being this Girl craving for attention.
·         She feels a woman – when her man tells her “You look beautiful today!” or “This color suits you”.
·         Being Sensitive, you capture her heart. One word to offer your help and she feels like she owes the world to you.
·         When she is respected, walking with you hand in hand makes her feel like your companion. Trust me, she will do everything possible to learn cricket, management or politics just to discuss it with you.
·         Being smiled at, from a distance when you find her – she loves it. Even an unfamiliar environment becomes normal and happy for her.
·         When she is complemented, while she cooks or chooses things for love. This encouragement will make her strive to achieve the taste of your liking. 
Small things make a huge difference, opening her car door, seating her at the restaurant, holding her hand while crossing the road, calling her to say you miss her or even give her a single rose! All these invoke in her the pleasant her. She might have issues, problems or cribs but never will it fail to strike the chord when these simple yet small things happen to her. She feels a Woman!!! Ready to conquer the heights !

Romance is....

People who speak to me know that I do keep coming back to this topic pretty often cause it is very close to my heart! Romance always is! ...