Return of the Busy Bee !!!

heyi,

The busy bee is here with a quick news post about herself and a nice long interpretation of something she jus came across.. So, the busy bee refers to me. You know y we use the words busy and bee in sequence as a phrase. The female bee is always occupied, as usual as in other species where the males do nothing at all and the female goes around and does everything. Ok, lets not start an argument and debate about it.

And here comes the news.. Though its late, its latest. I ve started learning guitar. This i feel is such a romantic and sexy instrument. Makes anyone fall for it. I wanted ta learn guitar, jus because i love the sound and feel of it and started on vijayadasami. I ve gone for 2 classes now and playing exercises and a little chords. Actually ya feels nice. So thats one major thing keeping me happy.

I just came across a couple of people who said they have separated from their other halves due to various reasons and that its a waste getting married. Though i am not married yet and may be i dunno too much about the intricacies of marriage i seriously think life is incomplete without it. The reasons for a marriage not working out could be enormous, Lot of them are even just excuses. This probed me to write the post cause i even saw a movie, "He is not just that into you". I was about a lot of relationships goin haywire, One married man falls for another girl and feels like never before. And the other doesn believe in marriage at all, but can just say live together. I jus am tryin to figure out. Do these things seriously happen. I don say that a married person should have no desires but it does make a difference when you are married. Is marriage not a commitment and a promise which is meant to be kept.

There might be certain exceptions where all marriages don end up being successful and there are places where there is a lot of abuse and misuse of a marriage happening. There might also be betrayal and loss of trust between couples. But this doesn happen with everyone does it ?

Recently i had one of my friends, one of the most eligible Indian bachelors abroad getting married. As soon as he was married, he left abroad with his wife. And there she revealed that she was not ready for a marriage and that she needed time to accept him. At this juncture, i had a serious question. What did she think marriage was, jus glitz and spending? I was jus thinking how the parents of the girl woulda felt. Having invested so much time and money in a wedding how would it be when the girl shows this kinda attitude. Leave time money or any other material loss. Did that girl ever think of the guys plight. Thats where i say marriage should be understood properly. There is no place for any selfishness here. Its all about care and concern is not it ? There were these thoughts rushing in my brain. and jus wanted ta write it down.

By the by life is good, a bit hectic and tedious though. Awaiting Diwali for a break !!!

Cheers