I just thot of writing somethin really random.. and this struck me.. I ve been observing this and taking different examples for this issue. and here is the issue. Parents And Kids.. Teachin, Learnin, Ordering or compelling What happens between them. It might sound more like the bommarillu or santosh subramaniam film.. But it happens on day to day basis everywhere.
It starts when we learn to walk when we are a baby. We try walkin on our own and facing so many falls. But there comes or mom or dad. They catch our hands and never let us lose our balance. There it begins where we never get to know what pain in life is or what falling down ever did to us. We then come to the toddler stage where our eating habits, writing and reading and reciting is taught.. They feel so proud listenin to us recite things too.. And we too enjoy it as toddlers..
But Just imagine after 15 years doing the same thing !!! Thats what i call Compulsion. Where in a get together the parent suddenly gets all enthu and asks the 15 yr old to sing and dance. or on a dinner table askin them ta do this do that hold the fork this way and the spoon that way. Think of our Facebook teenagers plight. He is on for his rendezvous with his FB Friends maintaining "I am a cool Dude yaar" image.
Next comes the choice of studies. Parents guidance is ok. But is compulsion a bit too much. Though they know better than us(or its jus an assumption in certain cases) the kid has ta have a chance to live their life. There they jus shun everythin sayin adolescent problem. Cme on mama dada... wake up. Kids now are better informed than us.
The kid never gets a chance to live his life on his own until atleast 21 which is almost 1/4th his life.. i jus saw a few instances all this season with my cousins finishing 12 th grade and few people around me in the same position. Above all a basic 14 year old example at home where the house is in splits with his sudden temper tantrums sayin am a teenager and all that..
Though i said all these, they were jus information. My message from this would be
For Parents: Mums and dads wake up huh!! Story boks have been replaced for facebook and ur kid is far beyond normal world.. so jus give them a chance. Even if they fail they ll learn from it and they ll become stronger
For kids(includes me): Parents after all will guide us till 21 max? Its jus the little happiness we give them by granting their small small wishes before our independent life and so jus try not ta hurt them. After all Who loves u more?
so keep thinkin and bloggin until i come up with somethin more random...
Cheers
1 comment:
cheers.
Post a Comment